about me

ABOUT ME

RECLAIMED MY FIRE
My intimate view on Life

ABOUT ME

I was born with a fire in my soul, guided by a quiet inner knowing before I could even speak. I have always felt deeply connected to what is true, grounded, and real even when I did not yet have the language to explain it.


Life slowly pulled me away from that version of me.


Survival, expectations, loss, adapting and carrying things quietly.

For years, I confused dominance with love and control with care. I searched for safety in places that were quietly breaking my foundation.
Piece by piece, my strength was stripped away until I started believing I was no longer enough.

Even when I thought I had finally found stability and a future to grow into, betrayal shattered that reality again.


Becoming a mother changed everything. It set everything in motion.
I made a decision: the cycle would stop with me.



My children would not inherit my trauma as their starting point.

I fought to rebuild myself, yet for a long time I stayed in survival mode, held back by one powerful fear: financial instability.

I held onto the safety of structure, bosses, and paychecks, even while something inside me kept saying there was another way to live.
I just didn’t yet know how.


Until life forced me to listen.


Through accidents, close calls, and moments where I came face-to-face with how fragile time really is.

I realized that Carpe Diem was not a slogan, it was a lifestyle. Choosing myself and continuously creating the future I want to live in.

So I chose myself.
I chose to build the life I had postponed.
To create a space where my thoughts, experiences, and knowledge could exist openly for the people who need it, enjoy it, or recognize themselves in it.


That space became LifeByT∞ts, as I became me.


Some stories here are heavy.
Quiet observations.

And some are simply moments that stayed with me.

All teaching me who I am becoming.

If it resonates, you will feel it.
Maybe part of it already does.

Welcome to LifeByT∞ts.

Sometimes life gives you more than one beginning.

♡ T∞ts

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